Valentines

Hey Beautiful Soul ,

Valentines Day is here once again,where roses and chocolate hearts are given and then maybe followed with a glass of bubbles . Maybe a special meal and for desert a night of passion if you are lucky enough .You are in love like you never knew before . Happy Valentines life is perfect or maybe not !

If this however is not your perfect day keep reading beautiful soul ,I have got you.

Valentines Day can be a day where people miss someone more than ever because they didn’t work out or something else happened that ended the relationship,and the whole day can make you feel sad if you are not in a relationship .On this particular day you can torment yourself as you scroll through social media and see all the photos and post about love and of loved up couples posting their gifts and kisses ,making you feel lonely ,unloved and you may wonder will that ever be me ?

Here is the thing though .It is better to be on your own than in a relationship that does not serve you.

When the time is right you will find the perfect one and you too will get roses and chocolate hearts,but remember this ,Valentines Day is a day to show love and affection and for some its forced just because thats what you are meant to do on this particular day. If it has to be forced then I really do not think it is worth it .

Gifts of love ,sharing a meal ,passionate nights should always be present in a loving relationship ,If love is real, days like this just happen. They are not forced because someone said this is what you have to do on this day. So here is the thing , if you are alone on Valentines Day ,don’t worry about it ,change the way you look at it . If you where to see the day as a day to give love and affection ,I bet you can think of many people you could do this for including YOURSELF.

So whether you decide to give to yourself or someone else do it .Buy some roses ,eat some chocolate shaped hearts ,bath in some bubbles ,love yourself first and those who are already in your life .So when the time comes and you have met someone to celebrate this day with you,you will look back and think I am glad I celebrated every Valentines day for me, because that helped you find the love you deserved and the right person to share it with you.

Happy Valentines x

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