When being a mom really starts and what to expect

Hey Beatiful Soul,

Thanks for joining me on inspiring the power of you ,

Today is my daughters 25th birthday ,She is beautiful ,loved and such an amazing soul as I am sure you feel the same about your daughter or son also .So a big happy birthday to you Sophie .

I was just gone 21 years of age when I became a mother .Even though I was young ,I do now believe whether you are older or younger there will always be great change in your life when you have a child no matter how prepared you are .

Being a mom starts way before you give birth .The carrying of the child is where the love bond is formed .Falling in love with a person you have not met yet .Feeling them move inside you and when they are quiet and not moving the concern and worry for this little soul is already there ,you wonder if they are ok and there it is being a mom has begun.

Child birth is painful there is no doubt about it but its true what you are told ,once they arrive and you hold them in your arms all the pain you felt bringing them into the world seems to drift away .As you hold this new life in your arms and you look at how perfect they are ,you know you will love them forever and will do the best you can for them no matter what .

My first born ,my beautiful daughter is 25 years old today .I know I did just mention that ,but 25 years has gone so fast .The years have flown by ,watching her grow into the amazing young women she is today .

There was ups and down all the way through ,don’t ever believe it will be any other way .You will be tested beyond your believe ,you will give more than you ever had to anyone in your life and you will not always get the reaction you want .You will have days you wanted to give up and you will have others days that you thrive and you feel like super mom and life is perfect .It doesn’t matter how much you read and learn about motherhood you will always be faced with challenges but together you will find a way to over come them .

The hardest part of being a mom is not wanting them to ever suffer in anyway and when they do it breaks your heart .Life though will always bring us situations that hurt us but that situation helps us build who we are .You can not control everything that happens to your child no matter how hard you try .The best way to be a mom is to be supportive ,help them build their dreams ,self worth and spirit .You will love unconditionally ,its just the way it is .

Learning that kind of love is gift ,being a mom is a gift .

Though times will arise but they will be over come .Focus on the cuddles ,the smiles ,the jokes ,the days out ,the chats ,the achievements ,the words “I love you mom ” all of these things make being a mom the best job in the world and the knowing that all your hard work shows up in them everyday and the best part of you is living in side them .

Everything Mom

By Joanna Fuchs

How did you find the energy Mom,

To do all the things you did ,

To be the teacher ,nurse and counselor

To me when I was a kid.

How did you do it all ,Mom ,

Be the chauffeur,cook and friend ,

Yet find time to be a playmate ,

I just can’t comprehend .

I see now it was Love ,Mom ,

That made you over come whenever I’d call ,

Your inexhaustible love ,Mom

And I thank you for it all .

To all you mothers out there you are doing a great job xx

Have a wonderful day ,Love me x

By Jennifer Clifford

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